February 25th, 2010 
charles kidd Now I know a lot of people get pulled into the friend zone when hanging out with the girl they want to date sometimes. This usually happens because women usually get too comfortable with you being around them and they notice that your state of mind is similar to theirs. Then they start talking to you as there friend and become too comfortable around you. They might start telling you secrets and continue to meet other guy friends as if you are part of there family. In order to not get pulled in you will have to hang around them less and make it clear to them after a while that you are interested in dating them. If you do not do this after the first few times you hang out with them then they will automatically place in whatever space they feel like. You can be placed in the space of dating them or in the space of not dating them but just being there friend.
Well if your very interested in this women then start taking her out and make moves on her. Now this may take some time if you are shy but as you take her out more often then you will have a better chance of making the move. Once you get the right vibe make the move. Now doing this may destroy and relationship that you have with them as being there friend but that is a chance you have to take. This might have a good effect or a negative effect because they might not like you that way and it might destroy your whole relationship with them as a friend. When you become friends with them too long you will have a choice to make and it may be unbearable to hold it in. So before you ever start hanging out with them as a friend make sure that you have a goal for them. Whether you want to date them or just become good friends.
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