So dating women with backage is definitely a rough task because of their problems and it is more for the older men. There are more chances that an older guy will be with a women who has kids or just got divorced because younger people are all about having a good time. Now I have known some guys who were dating women who have children real early but it never lasted more than a year because of all the problems they went through. He was going to college while she was working and they had problems going out and bringing the kids. They had problems finding people to watch them because they were so young and my friend was going out less and often busy watching her kids. This led to him giving up and finding a new girlfriend.

Like I said, this task is not easy to manage. The option is really your to make whether you want to go down this path and not everyone’s situation will be bad. I’m just letting you know that raising kids and being able to go out all the time is a full time job. If you try hard enough, you can make it happen. There are women raising children all by themselves without any help. If you find a nice woman who has kids but you are really attracted to her. Take a chance because you never know what kind of cards you will get later and you want to give a good try and hope things turn out good. There are a lot of picky people out there and you don’t have to be that shallow. Be yourself and create your own destiny that will work for you.