So is dating women with kids good or bad?

The answer is up to up to you!

If you like kids then it shouldn’t bother you unless your have a problem with other people’s kid.  You should always be a very nice and well rounded person when it comes to dealing with kids, even if they are not yours. I seen people take care of foster kids like they were their own. You should always be open to new things and make life better for other people.

Bad Points:

• Less time to go out
• No more free time by yourself
• Will have to watch them
• Will be busy all the time
• Have to worry about them constantly
• Have to pay extra money to pay for their food and diapers

Good Points:

• Will make you work harder
• You can use them for excuses
• They will be helpful to you in the future

Those are just some of the good and bad things that kids come along with when they are still a baby. When they get older then you spend less time monitoring them but spend more money to keep them happy.

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When dating a women with kids you have to know what kind of situation your getting into. There is a good chance that you will have to partially take care of that kid too. It depends on how nice of a person you are and how much time and resources you can provide. Even if you are in a relationship with a women who has kids there will be arguements usually down the line because she will want you to pitch in.

There are many types of problems that you might have in the future if you decide to start dating women with kids. I’m not telling you that you should avoid them because you can meet a nice women outside and find out that later down the road that she has 2 kids. You really should seize every opportunity that you get and don’t discriminate against anyone if they have problems. Everyone is human and that will be an on going cycle.

So if your dating a really nice women with kids, do everything in your power to make it work. You should know that kids require time and money so it might be a little hard. If your truly trying to make it work, then it should work out. If your there to just not deal with kids, then do not deal with it. The choice is up to you but speaking from witnessing it happen to a friend, it will be harder to manage kids. Make sure that you have matured and have your life together before you make that kind of commitment.

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