The Top Rules To Seducing Women:

1) BE “HIGH VALUE”

When you’re with a woman – no matter how beautiful you think she is – it’s important to believe you deserve to be with her. Because if you start thinking she’s ‘too good’ for you, you’ll screw things up. In fact, go a step further and believe that it’s up to HER to prove she deserves to be with you.

It may seem strange, but this little mental shift communicates very powerfully to a woman that she’s made the right decision to be with you.

2) BE AN EMOTIONAL COMMUNICATOR

If you want to know how to seduce women, then you must accept that women are “emotionally driven”. They’re not as logical as guys, so quit trying to ‘persuade’ her to go out with you. On the other hand, if you can relate to a woman on an emotional level – that really makes her feel good – no amount of ‘logic’ can persuade her to walk away from you.

So just be aware: It’s emotions that count most when seducing a woman, not logic.

3) LET HER TALK

The woman you’re with wants to know you’re actually interested in her as a person – not just the way she looks. So really pay attention and let her talk.

Too many guys make the mistake of trying to latch onto anything she says, or else they’re too busy thinking about what to say next that they totally ignore the point she’s making. Don’t do that. Give her time to talk.

4) ANTAGONIZE IN A PLAYFUL WAY

Sparking attraction and learning how to seduce women – it’s all about building anticipation and creating tension between you and the woman you are with. So put yourself in a curious and playful state of mind when you are together. Then listen and look out for opportunities to tease her and wind her up. This helps to really tap into her emotions, and it creates a fun starting point for taking things to a more ‘physical’ level too.

5) GIVE STRONG EYE CONTACT

Women like to be seduced by confident men. And strong eye contact is a powerful and instant indicator that a man has confidence. So use this to your advantage, and practice looking into a woman’s eyes just a little longer than she’s probably used to.

6) “SCREEN HER”

Like I said before, the woman you’re with needs to know her physical beauty isn’t the main reason you like her. This is especially true of very attractive women. So part of the process of knowing how to seduce a woman involves taking some time to “qualify” and “screen” her.
In simple terms, this means discovering her best qualities and letting her show you her personality.

How to Tell If A Girl Likes You:

So rule number one to tell if a girl likes you: Do NOT, under any circumstances, ASK a girl if she likes you. This is a horrible idea. She’ll probably deny it, and she’ll probably feel freaked out and uncomfortable by the whole situation.

Not good.

Instead, you’ll be much more successful by taking a more indirect approach. And she’ll appreciate you much more for being indirect too. It takes the pressure off her, and makes the whole experience much more interesting and exciting.

So now let me show you how to tell if a girl likes you – a better way:

1) LINGERING

When a girl is interested in you, she’s going to want to be around you. So it’s more than likely she’ll hang out in the same places you do, stick around when her friends disappear, and look for any excuse under the sun to spend time with you.

And if you’ve just met a girl for the very first time, and she’s not running away or desperately searching for an excuse to leave, then the chances are good that she likes you. (I know this first point seems a little too simple, but the truth is that a girl isn’t going to hang around you unless she wants to. It’s the first test in knowing how to tell if a girl likes you).

2) QUESTIONING

This next point – questioning – focuses on whether she keeps asking you a bunch of questions, and wants to get to know you more. It’s another one of those great signs she likes you. The questions could be as simple as, “What’s your name?”, “Where do you live?” etc… The key point is she looking for a way to both keep you near and find out more about you.

So again, the chances are good that she likes you if she starts asking you a bunch of questions. In many ways, she might be trying to figure out if you and her are compatible.

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The truth about maintaining a relationship is that both male and female have to be ready to dedicate there time to each other. They have to be able to bond and get over any problems they face. There are different sides to people and alot of the other sides only pop out during a relationship. People tend to show you a nicer side or pretend to be as nice as possible until they have to live with you.

Dating with women can be time consuming and alot of people have certain needs and certain expectations that they require from you. If they are not met, that causes women to look for what they need somewhere else. This causes cheating in relationship’s and can destroy relationships.

The key is not to stay on top of them for everything but watch them and make sure their happy. Another altercation you may find is that they want to move the relationship into something very big in a short amount of time. I tend to tell alot of people that they have to agree on things and think with two heads instead of one. When the agreements are not met, they both need to meet in the middle and agree on something.

Sometimes this case is very hard and require more thought. The most important thing is that you understand that life is never perfect and even though you meet the perfect looking girl. You may not end up with the perfect relationship or life. Sometimes the girls that you’ve known your whole entire life can be the ones they can provide you with the best relationship’s.

Alot of people also get into the relationship’s for wrong reasons. For example, money is one of the biggest reasons. A quick tip for all the guys reading is to try to come off as normal and average as possible. The reason is because if you flash alot of money around and act rich, you always run into problems. Whether it’s haters or just girls that to get you for all you got. Be careful and make sure the girl actually likes you for who you are. The best way to achieve this is to be average and don’t show off.

The last tip for you will be what to look for when you notice someone is interested in you but wants you to contionously spend your money. Once they usually act really happy to see you and want to you spend money on them. The best thing to do is accidently leave your wallet in the car and put a certain amount of money in it. If you come back and there is money missing, you should break it off.

Even if they look beautiful, break it off. That will save money and will let you know right away. If you can’t provide for them, then they will leave you. That’s the worst way to have a relationship, be nice but watch out for gold diggers.

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So by now you found a date and want to do a background check on them before you continue dating them. With today’s technology, there are so many ways to find people in your area or across the globe that share similar interests and beliefs as you, people you really connect with on a personal and intimate level.

One thing that a lot of these people don’t consider is the honesty of the people on the other end to admit their faults in the past. People can seem honest and genuine, but there’s no true way of telling. That means if you put their name into google, you can’t always believe what you hear. Don’t let the fake public records websites fool you, they won’t tell you anything.

Now, besides criminal history, there are many other reasons to look at a persons public record. You can learn financial information about your partner (i.e. previous bankruptcies), you can see property records, previous marriages – see if they are even STILL married! You can and should you these methods whether its finding someone on the street or online. There are so many people who act like someone there not, you should always make careful decisions. Dating with women can be a tricky game and their’s alot to consider.

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So everyone knows that conversation plays a big part in your in your date and your relationships. Here are some rules that will help you out.

Step One: Be self assured and self-confident enough to walk boldly up to the woman you like and start talking to her in an instant.

Step Two: It is also possible to be bolder and simply jump straight into the process of ensuring that women fall for you through the use of hypnosis. Yes, it is actually possible to hypnotize women into falling for you, and a lot of men before you have already achieved positive results out of it.

Fractionation, as the process is known, initially came from the neuro-lingustic programming field and is based on manipulating female emotions to make her either sad or happy and then eventually in your full control. This will be the reason for you always to succeed in dates. Dating with women isn’t so hard as long as you understand this and master it.

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So pay attention really quick. Here are a list of things that you don’t say.

1. “STFU”

Telling her to shut her mouth will earn you the “jerk award” for the day. Seriously, a girl doesn’t know your issues and only you know that you’re saying the wrong things because you’re simply feeling insecure. If you don’t like the way the conversation is going, leave or change the subject. A woman will get the message quickly and you don’t have to worry about letting your annoyance show.

2. “Less than constructive fashion advice”

This is the quickest way to get rejected or be tagged as a “girl’s best friend”. If you dispense fashion advice, your stance must be positive, not negative, and certainly not derogatory. Say something like “I think blue suits you better”, rather than something that amounts to the full meaning of the term “fat”.

3. “So… let’s get it on”

Saying this out loud is a grave misconduct. Girls like spontaneity and making it clear to her that she won’t get that from you will kill her mood quickly. Show sexual body language instead of telling her directly that you want to make out.

Dating With Women Secrets

So now you want to hear something that will work. There’s a hypnotic way of talking that makes women fall in love in less than 15 minutes, and it’s called fractionation. This will help you get to the next level.

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Now you are at the date and you need to make a great impression. The first thing would be to probably bring her a small present that she would really like to increase your chances of getting on her good side. Now this technique works all the time and for the present. You want to bring something small and cheap, nothing over $25. So when she gets it she will immediately be happy and think of something unique for the gift. It usually is a rose or a book. Now dating with women will help your chances of getting a second date by giving you the information that you need to know.

Dates are going to be a easy and much more successful if you know what to say. Even though your going to add your own twist on it. So picture that your still on the date and you brought your date the present and your in a restaurant. You have to start by asking them questions and you want to relate to them. Alot of times women will try to relate to you first.

This means that there interested in you. Continue asking them personal questions and watch them if they give you any signals. If your interested on kissing on the first date, keep them interacting. Once they give you some of the signal don’t do anything and watch their eyes. That will tell you whether it is the right thing to do. The signals you want to watch are going to be from their eyes and if there touching your hands or something.

Then if the eye signal is there do it. If the night is still young find something to do but make sure you kind of agree  to what else they say throughout the rest of the date. This means that now your chances of a second date will be high. So take them and be calm and collected. Then ask them for the second date, if this works then you should set it up for the next time. So remember dating with women can be hard, but if you have the right information it can be easy.

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Now you probably to take some consideration in what your doing and how your looking. “It’s time to find your first date.”

First you want to research the place that your going to be looking for women at. There are many places that would be considered the hot spots.

1.) Coffee House
A cozy coffee house is a great place for a first date. The lounge setting allows both you and your date to feel more comfortable and relaxed when talking and getting to know one another. Some coffee houses even have fireplaces and live music. Just take it easy on the caffeine, or before you know it you will be talking a mile a minute and sweating like a crazy person.

2.) Walk in the Park
There is nothing sweeter than a walk in the park. If you’re more active, kick up your park visit with a bike ride or a hike. You can also make your date more romantic with a packed picnic. Some parks have playgrounds and scenic views.

3.) Sporting Event
Sporting events make a great first date, especially if both you and your date are fans. Sporting events are both entertaining and upbeat. You can even plan to meet up with friends afterwards if you want to take off some of the pressure of the date. One of the best sporting events for a date is baseball, since it’s more chill.

4.) Miniature Golf
Ahhh … putt putt! Who doesn’t love a game of mini golf!? You may even be able to help your date learn how to putt correctly … (wink, wink). Some times in a situation like this you can joke around and nudge your date when they are trying to putt. It allows for you to be a little more hands on. But if you are really competitive and a sore loser, you may want to stay away from this option.

5.) Live Music
Find out what kind of music your date likes and try to find a local venue where they are playing. Sometimes bands come to local coffee houses or fairs to play. That’s always really fun to see with someone you like. The music may be too loud to chat, so make sure you plan time before or after to get some talking in.

6.) Museum
Visiting a local museum could be a fun way to spend an afternoon. You can find out from your date what they like and are interesting in. Also, you can see which museums they haven’t been to and try to go to one of those. Just the fact that you are trying to learn more about them and do something they are interested in should score you some points.

7.) Ice Skating/Roller Skating
If there is a rink near you, you should seriously consider going there on a first date. Skating is fun … and even if you fall, you are sure to win some humor points. Another thing about skating is that you can pretend to not be so great at it and ask for help, which typically means hand-holding!

8.) Zoo
Not only is going to the zoo free, but who doesn’t like seeing baby animals running around and being silly!? It’s the best. If the weather is right and you can time it nicely, you might just hit a day where a lot of the animals are out and about. Just make sure to wear comfortable shoes, because you are sure to do a lot of walking!

9.) Arcade
Arcades are super fun for a first date and some even have climbing walls, paintball and laser tag. Do some research to find a cool one near you and your date will definitely have a good time. Just make sure to not be too competitive unless your date likes that. But remember … no one likes a sore loser! You won’t get to date #2 with a sucky attitude.

10.) Amusement Park
What can be more fun then an amusement park with roller coasters, stuffed animals and funnel cakes? Not much! You might want to check with your date first and make sure they don’t get motion sickness. That would NOT make for such a great time.

SO CONSIDER  YOUR CHOICE TO BE VERY IMPORTANT BECAUSE YOU MAY NOT GET ANOTHER SHOT.

“Now lets consider what you can and cannot due.”

Do Be Yourself

When you are on a date, you want to make a great impression — yet you can be really nervous, so sometimes it might be hard to come across as yourself. It is so important to be honest and just let your true colors shine through. If your date doesn’t like you for YOU, then you don’t want to date him/her anyway.

Do Be a Good Listener

Seriously, just close your mouth for a couple of minutes and listen to what your date says. Not only will you probably learn something, but your date will be so much more attracted to you. Listening shows your date that you actually care about what he/she has to say.

Do Try and Have Fun

Even though you are nervous it is important to shake your jitters and actually try and have some fun. Obviously you are dating this person for a reason, so enjoy his/her company and whatever activity the two of you decide to do on your date. If you focus on having fun and enjoying spending time with your date, it will go well.

Do Make Eye Contact

This is essential to making sure your date is a success. Making eye contact with your date shows that you are fully there, meaning listening, staying interested and engaged with him/her. Fight the nerves and urge to stare at your feet and look into your date’s eyes when the two of you are speaking.

Do Give Compliments

You like this person, so take the opportunity to compliment him/her on their appearance, the information they share with you and anything else that makes sense in the moment. Both guys and girls respond well to compliments because it reinforces that you like them and appreciate them. This is vital to a great date.

Do Laugh at His/Her Jokes

Laughter fights the nerves, breaks the ice and reinforces the relationship between you and your date. If your date makes a joke … laugh. It’s really that simple. You don’t want to force laughter, but if you feel it coming on, a giggle goes a long way. There is chemistry in two people laughing in unison.
Dating Don’ts

Don’t Pretend to Be Someone You’re Not

Be proud of who you are. No one is impressed with someone that lies or has to exaggerate who they are. Be yourself and you will find the right person who likes the real you … instead of the made up one.

Don’t Make a Snap Judgement

Guys and girls both get nervous on dates, so try not to make snap judgements about his/her character due to some silly comments and nervous actions. Some times when we are nervous we don’t always act like ourselves, so give someone a second chance if they didn’t completely impress you the first date.

Don’t Talk on the Phone

Seriously, this is typically one of the biggest dating pet peeves. Put your phone on vibrate or simply leave it at home when you are on a date. Not only is it annoying, but it makes your date think that you are not taking your time together seriously. You can manage an hour or two without your cell phone blowing up.

Don’t Be Late

Nothing says, “I don’t take this date or you seriously” like being late. Plan accordingly and BE ON TIME. There is nothing more annoying then leaving your date hanging not knowing if you are standing him/her up or not. If you are running late, then be a decent person and call your date to let him/her know.

Don’t Be Too Aggressive or Direct

There is nothing that will make your date run in the opposite direction then you being too aggressive or direct. Don’t talk about previous relationships, being in love with the person, controversial issues or anything like that. Just chill out and have a good, light-hearted time with your date.

Don’t Leave Him/Her Hangin’

If you like your date and want to see him/her again let them know. When the date comes to an end, you both are unsure about what’s next, so take charge and tell him/her that you would like to get together again. And if you say you are going to call … you BETTER call. There is nothing more frustrating when you like someone and they blow you off.

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When it comes to getting dates and carrying a relationship, it can be quite difficult. Getting dates can very difficult to get if you don’t have good communication skills and a sense of style. Those would have to be the top traits needed to pick up women.

There a tons of women looking for different things in men and you can’t always please everyone. There are different women at different ages and times in their life looking for what best suites them. The majority of women spend lots of timing watching t.v and reading magazines to picture the ideal guy.

Honestly, you don’t need to change yourself to look like one of those male models on t.v, but take the time to look clean and fresh. If you want to maximize your changes of landing dates you going to need to take time and upgrade your image, whether it be bigger muscles or stylish clothes. So for today, start working on personal image.

Dating with women has its ups and downs so know that it’s still possible to land a date may not be biggest problem. Your biggest problem maybe getting that person to stay truthful and trustworthy. Think about it, we seen JerrySpringer and the other reality t.v shows. The biggest problem people face is keeping their realtionship’s under control.

This problem continously pops up and might be something you will have to face once you claimed your date as your official girlfriend. So keep this in the back of your mind and make sure it’s a person that likes you for being yourself and not for what’s in your pocket or what you can give them.

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Hello my name is Charles, I’m 21  and I can’t get a date. I’m a manager at a club and I can’t even pick up dates inside my own club. I have struggled many years on getting dates. I have been rejected many times and can’t pick up a date to save my life. I have a few who friends pick girls up right in front of me. When I try to copy what they do, I have no success. They brush me off many times as I approach them.

I was always got teased for not looking that attractive. I was so ashamed at myself that I though about getting some kind of face transplant. I visited a few of plastic surgeons and never went through with it, because it was too risky for me. I then focused on my career for about 7 years. I became somewhat successful enough to buy the expensive sports cars and big houses, but there was no happiness.

I then visited a psychologist who told me that what I’m really looking forward too was a nice woman who I could share my success with. I then began looking on the internet on how I can seem more attractive and  learn the techniques that are proven to help get dates.

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