Dating With Women

Improving Your Looks For Your Inner Game

May 17th, 2010

charles kidd

Are your looks important to pick up women? A lot of men believe that and some of the gurus thinks that’s not important. The real truth is, that it is important. Life is not always fear and not everybody is attractive to women. What you have to do is develop the right mindset to pick yourself up if you get denied. Once you start working on it and improving your looks and your mindset then nothing can stop you. I knew a guy who thought he wasn’t good enough to pick up a girl because he was broke. The real truth was that he looked fine but his mindset stopped him from ever working on it. I told him if you have a problem with money then all you have to do is get a better job, its very simple to figure out your problem when you put it in its simplest form. Also I walked with him to pick some girls and he had a great time and didn’t have to spend a dollar. He knew what his problem was afterwards. Now women like a few things and they will judge you on it when making first impressions.

Teeth – crooked, chipped, stained and missing
Hair – color, receding/baldness and poor style
Skin – acne scars, shaving rash, birthmarks, scaring and stretch marks
Weight – being overweight and underweight
Height – being too tall or too short
Unattractive features – big nose or just generally not very facially attractive
Dress sense – being unstylish or just dressing inappropriately

Teeth:

It is best to keep your teeth clean and make regular trips to the dentist. A women can see your teeth as a problem if they are really messed up due to regular effects or smoking. I take great pride to make sure my breath is smelling good and your teeth are looking right. You do not have to have completely white teeth but they can’t be yellow. Also if you need some gum then get some gum before you leave the house to make sure that your breath is smelling good.

Hair:

Keeping your hair properly groomed will help your chances of getting dates with women. For a lot of women this shows your masculinity. You want to make sure that your haircut is telling them that. I have seen men with girly haircuts and men with regular haircuts and they do have an effect. So try to spend that extra money to make sure that your hair is looking good when you go out on dates.

Skin:

Your skin is very important because that right there is the breaking factor why a girl might deny you or continue to talk to you. If you do not take care of your skin that it is probably a mutual thing for people to talk about your skin or deny you. You must take care of it because that is one of the biggest things that people look art when they judge you. So take time to go to a spa or go to a dermatologist n order to improve your skin. I would go as far as have someone to do some makeup to keep it looking good for dates.

Height:

Your height is not something you can really change. Some people even believe that if they were taller that they could be more successful. Now trying to improve your height would be very difficult but there are two options you have. The first option is to wear elevated shoes like boots or something. The second option is to have surgery on it. Now for it to work you have to let the doctors break your legs and then they will lengthen them. It hurts and you won’t be able to walk for a while. you decide if its worth it.

Weight:

Your weight is important and its never easy to look like the celebrities you see on tv but if you work out daily you will be able to look good for dates. you do not need to have six pack abs but as long as your happy with the way you look and the girl is then your okay. If you want to go the extra mile to look better then go ahead but girls never leave men because they don’t have six pack abs. What women really want is a guy with muscles and you do not have to overdue it. It is something that if you work on weekly or daily you can achieve your results. If you are an overweight guy then you need to work on losing weight. Not everyone will look the same in the end because people have different body types but as long as you feel good about it, then your fine.

Unattractive Features

If you are not smiling and can’t keep a straight face. Sometimes guys get so nervous that they can’t keep a straight face or they keep mad faces to help them cope with it. You have to try and keep up a good facial expression as you talk and the mood changes. By doing this, you will make her feel better and safer. I known some guys that always get asked on dates, “Is there something wrong.” There never is something wrong but the nervousness or lack of confidence gets to them.

Dress sense:

The biggest thing we have control over when it comes to appearance is how you dress. I can not stress the importance of how being well dressed raises your confidence and the way other people perceive and treat you. Well a lot of men take pride in what they wear and some men do not. If you plan on attracting girls then it would be in your best interest to look a certain way. Now whats in fashion are usually the mane brand clothing like Gucci, Prada, Versachi, and Polo. Now these kind of clothes will make them know that you have money but at the same time it looks and its cool right now. However, you can wear regular clothes but its more of something they are use too. You want to get attention so by wearing nice clothes you will get more eyeballs looking at you. It depends on what kind of scene your at. Usually this would be good for a club but if it’s a a important event. Then usually it requires a suit so all you have to do is look at the popular suits in fashion. Such as Calvin Klein and Gucci.

So are looks important for inner game? I say that they are as it improves how you feel about yourself and how others perceive you. More important is how you feel about your looks and if there is something you don’t like then can you do something about it? The quickest and easier things to change are your hair and clothes, just by doing this you will look completely different. Once you have nailed your style then you may find that other hang ups you had start to disappear.

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How To Get Noticed By Girls

May 14th, 2010

charles kidd

Now everyone guy wants girls to notice them, it makes you feel better inside. I know the feeling men get when they walk into a club and they get head turns. It makes them feel important and then this gives the opportunity to be cocky and pick and choose. This feeling is great and we have to understand how and why this happens for certain men and not every man.

We have to break it down why this happens. Here are the 3 traits that bring immediate attraction:

Your actions
Your appearance
Your words

Your Actions

Whenever you walk inside a bar or club you have to watch what you do. Have you ever watched a James Bond movie? You have to carry yourself in a suave mood however get attention. Always staying calm and confident will do the trick here. Try to watch some James Bond movies and copy off him.

Your Appearance

Women are very interested in your overall appearance. So by you wearing certain clothes and looking a certain way, it brings you immediate attraction with other women. Women generally like more of a natural looking man and well fitted clothing on you. It really depends on what each women wants to see. There are women who are gold diggers and they are women who are not. You might go to a party where every women is looking at you determine how much you spent on clothing and watch out for any expensive jewelry. These women are the women who will only date you because they want you to take care of them. There are other women who are not too worried on what your wearing, as long as your handsome and have a good attitude they are interested.

You can’t always make every women happy but in general you want to dress casual and wear something that you feel comfortable in. For example if you have messed up shoes, wear the ones that are not messed up. You want to feel confident so make sure you practice GTL (Gym, Tan, Laundry).

Your Words

Once you engage in a conversation with them its best to know what words spring excitement. Always talk to them and try to have these qualities in your words. Use exciting words, like:

- tingling
- pleasure
- sensual
- radiant
- passion

By doing this you will get their attention and automatically get them to flirt with you. Then from there just taking everything one step at a time and make sure you get there number. Once this is done you can announce yourself as successful but try to see how far you can go on the first meeting.

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Which Kind Of Guy Are You?

May 14th, 2010

charles kidd

These are some powerful concept to improve your effectiveness at picking up girls. You will need to understand this.

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This concept is extremely powerful when attracting girls. You have to make sure that your mindset is right in order to be successful. Leave comments and tell what kind of guy are you.

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Staying Away From The Gold Diggers

May 1st, 2010

charles kidd

Now I know every guy is avoiding gold diggers these days and I will just give you advice on how to avoid them. Now gold diggers are people who use for money. They usually are people who you are dating or it can be a friend. They people always seem to bother about getting money from you or you spending money on them. Gold diggers usually target people who have money or is showing that they have money. They would act as if they interested in you so that you can feel a little bit happier inside but they plan is to get your money. Weeks later after dating them you find out that your spending lots of money every week and whether its taking them out or taking them shopping. Some guys fall weak to beautiful women who show immediate interest in them. These guys are usually the guys who don’t pick up girls a lot. You have to be careful of these people because they will take you for what you got.

An example of this: You met a girl yesterday outside in the park. You got her number and she really liked you. You immediately noticed she was very attractive and she approached you instead of you approaching her. Well you like her and see her again at the park. She starts saying nice things about and gives you lots of compliments. A week later you start dating her and she wants you to take her out to nice places. You don’t mind because you have money and now your paying for her and you every time. You go out 2-4 times a week costing you about $50 on average. Now she starts being extremely nice to you and you have sex with her once or twice. She then has a need to get new clothes and she doesn’t have the money. You then start buying it for her because you want to keep her happy. After a little while you deplete a lot of your funds and your broke. Now after sometime of not making her happy she will then break up with you and starting digging on a new guy. This happens to a lot of guys who let it get really bad before they fix the problem. If you see this happening in your relationship its best to end it before it gets out of hand.

Now I hope everyone learned a good lesson out of this. This is not always bad if you are rich but know one wants to get into relationships when they know there partner is only in it for the money. This can be very dangerous because they might even jump into another guy’s arm if they find out that he’s making more money than you. One thing you should remember is if they leave you that there are plenty of other women out there who are not gold diggers.

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The Day Game

April 28th, 2010

charles kidd

To begin pua training you have to start some where. The best place to start is with the day game. The day game means picking up girls in the day time. Now there are different rules for each different game but this game is by far the easiest game to implement. Now you would probably think that the clubs and bars would be the best place to pick up girls. Usually there lots of girls there to talk to but there is also loud music and less of a chance that you will be able to talk one on one with them. There is also the fact there are many men like yourself trying to talk to them which makes this harder. In the day time there many women by themselves and many of them that might be easier to talk too. There are lots of benefits when trying to pick up girls in the day time.

Benefits:

1. You meet women where you naturally are during your day, which means you have things in common right off the back.

2. You have a better chance to talk with them by themselves. There are lots of women walking around by themselves.

3. You don’t have an environment that works against you the ways bars do. In bars and clubs you have to fight the noise, the crowds, the drunk guys, the music, the haters, among other things.

4. Women are more liable to speak with you because there more relaxed during the day.

There are a lot of women for the taking so approach them with confidence. Now in order for you to become a master at the day game you have to be able to pick up girls in the day time. You can start talking to every girl that catches your interest outside but sometimes it might be difficult if they are not around you. So it’s best to locate the spots where there are lots of girls.

Places to look:

1. Malls

2. Events

3. Parks

4. Shopping places

5. Fast food places

6. Movie theaters

7. Public Places

Now in order for you to actually pick them up you have to go for it and stop worrying about rejection or anything like that. Everyone is a human so think of them like that. If you approach them and they don’t want to talk, just move on and find someone else. The most important thing is that you approach them calm and have confidence in yourself. Usually lots of men stand around watching them walk by for the first few times when they attempt to do this. As long as you try you will have made more progress than not trying at all so take a chance. The day game is a good way to start and some of your skills can help you improve your night game.

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Introduction To PUA Training

April 25th, 2010

charles kidd

Learning pua training is the ultimate way to become a pick up artist. A lot of people have lots of doubts on whether these techniques really work. The best way to actually find out is by getting a lot of information on it or watching it in action. The top coaches who tech this is “Mystery” and Richard La Ruina. These gurus are masters of dating women and picking them up. Pua training is there to polish all your skills in getting girls and will teach more than normal product can. He has a website here and here which you can book to meet them.

They teach different methods on picking up girls and seducing them. Let us face it can we all afford face surgery to look like Brad Pitt or become rich and famous, The answer is NO. So how can we strike immediate attraction in women if cannot? The answer is to really understand how women think and understand what attracts them. Picking up a girl is something very easy but what if we want to pick up the really hot women. Are all of them gonna like every man they meet. Hell No, you have to take your wins and take loses but once you understand and practice picking them up, you get better at it. Our faces is one thing that is really important when meeting people or getting judged on how you look. Although we cannot change it, the best thing we can do is improve our game so that we have the best chance picking them up. In pua training this is all revealed.

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When Body Language Is Calling You

April 25th, 2010

charles kidd

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Now there a lot of people who believe body language can tell you exactly what that person is thinking. Do you believe that its important? Now this comes into play when you can figure out the signs. Usually whenever you go on dates and you start having deep conversations you will notice this. There are many men who are shy or do not notice these signs. So usually they do not act on it or don’t understand it. In case you do not notice you should to the same. They might be able to pick it up and tell what your thinking.

One of the best tricks to do with body language when your on dates is to lead and follow. This means that whenever they do something that you notice then you have some kind of body reaction to it. This signals them that you picked it up. Now although this trick does work sometime you have to pay attention to a few things. The first thing is the eyes, then the hands, then the body movement and always listen to what she says. If you pay attention to these things you will know whether she is signaling you to do something. Sometimes she maybe uncomfortable where she’s at or maybe uncomfortable with what your saying. One thing I have personally seen was a girl who was irritated on by the way her date was acting, she started putting her head down and putting her hands through her hair. This was a signal that she was absolutely irritated and wanted to leave. So that is why it is so important to notice this. By the end of the date you may think things have gone well but she may have been upset with the things you said. You can never be to sure until unless you test these things because every women shows different signs.

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Picking Up Girls

April 8th, 2010

charles kidd

Are you having trouble picking up girls? Well once you understand the art of approaching women you will become a master at this. A lot of men think doing this is hard and it cannot be done for certain women. The answer is that it can be done on any women and its very simple. The whole point of picking up girls is usually to have a one night stand or getting the number so you can follow up. Picking up girls can be hard if you do not do it right and have insecurities. Lots of men have insecurities when approaching women for different reasons. The ways to get around that is by finding the root and stop comparing yourself to everyone else. Once you have that solved then you have to understand how to approach them. You will need to single them out if there with a crowd or find a way to get them alone.

Step 1. When approaching women you need to be confident and always act like you are running into a friend. Women are more are open to talking to a complete stranger if she is approached properly and slightly impressed with what she sees. If you approached her looking right and having the right attitude then this is your best chance to get a positive reaction.

Step 2. The next up is to what your going to say. Know what your going to say before you say it and be prepared for what they have to say. You can start up with a simple pick up line or go straight into introducing yourself. For more reference check out the conversation starters post. You have to engage as soon as you start to talking to her. You need good eye contact and make sure you show no signs of being nervous, even if you are.

Step 3. The next is to make sure that she is enjoying herself and asking her really general questions. It all depends on what she is doing when you meet her. Sometimes you do not have a lot of time and might have to play the guy with the hookups if you have them. They usually always want something free or easy so if you do not have much time you can instantly play that card and then go straight for the number. If you have some time ask questions and get to know her a little better. Always start with general questions then gradually move to personal questions.

Step 4. The next step is making sure she is laughing and this maybe hard if she has no sense of humor. This best impressions is always the people who make them laugh and have a good time. This can be done by playing games with them or showing them magic tricks. It really does not matter what you do as long as you do not embarrass them or yourself. Keep it simple but make sure its humorous.

Step 5. The next thing to do is either ask them what they are doing later, now or get their number. Now it is time to close it so ask for there numbers but make sure it comes out naturally. You have to ask it but make sure you say it quick and clear. If you take too long she might have more questions and if you say it to low then she might ask you to repeat it. This shows little self esteem which is important. Make sure the message comes out and no matter if she gives it or not, you gained experience and you done it properly. Remember that there are many more women so rejection is not bad. By practicing it you will have gotten better at picking up girls.

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Approaching Women

April 7th, 2010

charles kidd

Having problems approaching women and not sure why? A lot of men are confused and struggle when approaching women. Approaching women is an easy task but if you do not have confidence it can be an impossible task. Whenever you approach a women you have to always know a few basic rules to get the best results. The first thing you must have is confidence and the way you approach them makes a big difference. If you approach them all hyped up then they might think your crazy. You have to be very calm when approaching them and you have to speak to them as if you already know them. You cannot be shy or let there looks make you nervous. I am not perfect and I had the same problem, so I know what it feels like. The way to surpass this is by practicing it and implementing before you take on the finer women.

If you practice it you will get better at it and when you approach finer women it will naturally not become so difficult to do. When approaching very fine women you have to always think of them as regular people and not get so excited because this usually causes you to mess up. While presenting yourself make sure that you are giving her eye contact because this lets her know that you are concentrating on her. All it takes is a good opening and a steady but entertaining conversation to leave an everlasting impression. Approaching women maybe the biggest problem you face but when it is not there you will become a women magnet and picking up girls will be easy.

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Conversation Starters

April 6th, 2010

charles kidd

Are you having trouble starting conversations or getting ideas for conversation starters? Either way once you mastered the ability to start a conversation with a random girl then you can instantly be more confident to approach a women. A lot of the times men start to worry to much about how to start a conversation and use that as an excuse to not approaching them. If you are one of these guys then you know that approaching women is something you need to work on. In order for you to be successful you need first to accept the fact that you might make a mistake when talking or approaching them. It does not always come out right and there can be lots of reasons that it can back fire. What you need to know is that this can happen and all you have to do is move on.

Conversation starters are very important in getting the ball to roll in the right way once you approached them. Once the ball starts rolling you should have an idea what to talk about or it might just come naturally. Also remember just because you started a the conversation off properly does not mean that it will go perfect. The very first few words should always be my name is blank what’s yours. This is after you used the pick up line when approaching them or you can just start with this.You need to keep them entertained as well as flirt with them.

Here are some tips for conversation starters:

1. What were your worst jobs?

2. What was your first car?

3. Who is your favorite movie star?

4. Tell me about your relatives

5. Do you like to shop?

6. Are you romantic?

7. What hobbies to you spend money on?

8. If you found a $100 what would you do?

9. Have you ever been arrested?

10. What is the dumbest thing you have ever done?

11. What is the best way to relax?

12. Do you exercise?

13. What is the dumbest purchase you ever made?

14. What is the worst vacation?

15. If you could retire tomorrow what would you do?

By using some of these ideas you will have a good idea what you should ask when starting conversations. Remember that conversation starters are just the beginning on picking up girls.

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