This is something I will never figure out because all women are different and want different things. Something that you will learn very fast is that you can’t please everyone. You can determine that most of the woman in the world are going to base their idea of the perfect man from watching t.v. When they start going on dates themselves then they start realizing that it may be hard trying to find a guy with a perfect body and rich without some type of attitude. The attitude I am talking about is snobbery towards woman. If a guy has a perfect life then it would be harder for a regular woman to get his interest. Not saying all men are like that but there are a few. There is also a chance that you can find a nice guy who has the perfect life with a very nice attitude but there are less chances that you will find those kind of people. Good guys vs bad guys will always compete against each other, it depends on what the women like better.

When people start dating you have to be everywhere at one time in order to seize all the good opportunities but you obviously can not do it. So if your a regular guy and you meet a nice woman that you want to impress. Be yourself at first, if your a nice guy you do not need to act bad to impress her because your true personality will show up sooner or later. The best advice I can give you is to be yourself but if there is a girl your really trying to impress then you can change your personality a little. One of things that I have noticed is that by continuously trying to impress girls with a different personality may actually alter your personality a little bit. Sometimes for the good or for the bad. By being yourself and actually connecting to another person with the same qualities will ensure the perfect match.

This brings a little insight on how to adopt to any girl’s personality. The key to this to listen to what they say and base your personality on the answer they give for meeting the perfect man. Now it is up to you whether  you want to go through this in order to impress her. If you want to to stay the same and have someone who act like you then do not change for anyone and continue to act like yourself. The option is really up too you depending on your situation. There are no case studies that shows being a jerk is better or being a nice guy is better. The best attitude you should have in general is being a nice guy.

The 3 second rule means that during your conversation that you always answer or do something within 3 seconds. If you do not do anything within that time it means that your very hesitant which puts you in the weaker position. This applies whether your on a date or not on a date and a women from across the room gives you a signal that she is interested.

The 3 second rule is a very simple and basic rule to follow. If your on a date then this will come in handy so that things don’t get boring and  weird. It will come in handy when your not on a date if a woman gives you the signal that it is okay to talk to her. Now there are many things that happen that can alter this technique. If things happen at the spot your in and mess up the moments.

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There is a lot of things that you should consider when starting a conversation with women because if you ask her tell or her things that she doesn’t want to here, she might get irritated. There is a certain way you want to present yourself as well, so that your date feels good being around you. I’m going to already assume that you have talked to the girl and this your first date. It is very simple to get a date as long as your able to pickup her number. Then you can setup the first date and are up to the point where you need to be.

Now that this is your first date you want to prepare properly so that you make a good impression. Here are a few things to consider:

• Take A Shower
• Brush Your Teeth
• Shave
• Find Nice Clothes
• Wear Deodarant
• Find A Nice Car
• Brush Your Hair

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Dating women with children can be good or bad depending on how much time and money you have. If you have lots of time and money then it will be a breeze taking caring of kids. If not, then there might be some struggles dealing with kids. Things get broken and time goes down fast. Make sure you have a lot of patience when you take on the task. If you don’t have patience it will be harder for you to deal with them.

Kids really are a blessing so don’t discriminate if it is your kids or not.  Now taking care of kids will obviously give you more work and less time for fun. The most important thing to know is that you should only start taking care of the children if your serious about starting a relationship. If this is an on an off dating issue, then you shouldn’t take of her kids.

Whatever you do make sure that you think things over because making fast decisions can mess up your life. There are a lot of big decisions too be made and its best if you have a friend to go over it with. Many people make the wrong decision and pay for it later on in life. There are many movies and t.v shows based on this.  I personally had one friend go through this problem but he was lucky enough to have his family support him even though it wasn’t his kid. He had started a very serious relationship with a girl who had a child.

So is dating women with kids good or bad?

The answer is up to up to you!

If you like kids then it shouldn’t bother you unless your have a problem with other people’s kid.  You should always be a very nice and well rounded person when it comes to dealing with kids, even if they are not yours. I seen people take care of foster kids like they were their own. You should always be open to new things and make life better for other people.

Bad Points:

• Less time to go out
• No more free time by yourself
• Will have to watch them
• Will be busy all the time
• Have to worry about them constantly
• Have to pay extra money to pay for their food and diapers

Good Points:

• Will make you work harder
• You can use them for excuses
• They will be helpful to you in the future

Those are just some of the good and bad things that kids come along with when they are still a baby. When they get older then you spend less time monitoring them but spend more money to keep them happy.

When dating a women with kids you have to know what kind of situation your getting into. There is a good chance that you will have to partially take care of that kid too. It depends on how nice of a person you are and how much time and resources you can provide. Even if you are in a relationship with a women who has kids there will be arguements usually down the line because she will want you to pitch in.

There are many types of problems that you might have in the future if you decide to start dating women with kids. I’m not telling you that you should avoid them because you can meet a nice women outside and find out that later down the road that she has 2 kids. You really should seize every opportunity that you get and don’t discriminate against anyone if they have problems. Everyone is human and that will be an on going cycle.

So if your dating a really nice women with kids, do everything in your power to make it work. You should know that kids require time and money so it might be a little hard. If your truly trying to make it work, then it should work out. If your there to just not deal with kids, then do not deal with it. The choice is up to you but speaking from witnessing it happen to a friend, it will be harder to manage kids. Make sure that you have matured and have your life together before you make that kind of commitment.

So dating women with backage is definitely a rough task because of their problems and it is more for the older men. There are more chances that an older guy will be with a women who has kids or just got divorced because younger people are all about having a good time. Now I have known some guys who were dating women who have children real early but it never lasted more than a year because of all the problems they went through. He was going to college while she was working and they had problems going out and bringing the kids. They had problems finding people to watch them because they were so young and my friend was going out less and often busy watching her kids. This led to him giving up and finding a new girlfriend.

Like I said, this task is not easy to manage. The option is really your to make whether you want to go down this path and not everyone’s situation will be bad. I’m just letting you know that raising kids and being able to go out all the time is a full time job. If you try hard enough, you can make it happen. There are women raising children all by themselves without any help. If you find a nice woman who has kids but you are really attracted to her. Take a chance because you never know what kind of cards you will get later and you want to give a good try and hope things turn out good. There are a lot of picky people out there and you don’t have to be that shallow. Be yourself and create your own destiny that will work for you.

Dating married women can be a problem if you don’t know if the women your dating is not truly in love with you. The thing with these fairly tale story weddings, is that there fake. If you feel a strong connection with a women that you haven’t really persuade and couldn’t get around to telling her your feelings. She will always be on your mind and remembered as the one who got away. Now if your still  single and you let another man step up marry her and get away, then it is your fault for not acting quick enough. There are many opportunities with many women out there and it really depends where you are at the specific time. If you everywhere then you will seize all the opportunities but that is not the case. So if the women you wanted got married but your still close by and still in love, then tell her how you feel.

You don’t have to stop a wedding to win her back. All you have to do is overcome the shyness and talked very passionet in a closed area. The chances for you to get hr back are very slim but it is worth a try. The worst thing that can happen is that she says “NO.” In that case your chances are truly done and you better off looking for something new. If she says “YES” then it you can figure out how it can work. Now there is a option that she will be unsure or will answer with a no or yes in a passionet way. If you see catch that then you should continually go after her over a period of time until she says “Yes.” This means that something was there but you have to dig deep to bring it back up.

Now These Are Things That May Help You Have A Better Chance Of Getting A Yes

• Dressing Nice
• Having Created A Successful Career
• Drive A Fast car
• Get The Perfect Body
• Become Popular Like A Celebrity
• Have A Calm And Passionet Attitude

If you have these certain things down, then you have a better chance but it is not guaranteed.

There are lots of women who are different and who are into different situations. There are women who are single and carry around a lot of baggage. When you meet new people you want to take everything slow and the real personality will come out overtime. When people first meet each other they usually always are very conservative and nice. Once you start dating them, their attitude usually does change a little as they get to know you. There will always be some confrontations that you go through and little mistakes that you make. If you notice that their attitude is getting very bad or something in their personality has completely changed for the worst, then it is time to end the relationship. It usually escalades into a worser problems.

Dating women with backage is something that you will pick up in matter of weeks depending on how good they hide it. If you were interested in having sex with this women right away then it doesn’t apply to you. If you are looking specifically for some action then dating women with backage will be fine. It is only for the people who are looking for a long term relationship that it applies too. The best thing to do in general when you find a women with backage is end the relationship because it will effect your relationship in the long term.

There are women with small backage that will not effect your relationship as bad but you have to take chances. Now there are emotional backage and physical backage. The emotional backage is when a women has to coupe with relationship’s from her past that she hasn’t overcome. Physical backage is when she has a kid and has to deal with situation’s from her past relationship and has to carry around her kid. If you are a risk taker and have a deep love for a women knowing that she has a lot of backage then go for it. If you want to have a healthy relationship and had not come across these type of women, then avoid them.

Dating with with married women with have it’s differences from dating single women. There might be some issues that she is going through or she has to coup with until things get settled. Married women are good to be dating because the chances are that they might be interested in one thing. The only thing married women want while there married would be to have fun. Now I don’t encourage that you try to find a married women but if you are are looking just to have a good time without a relationship, then married women are at the top of the list. Now if your looking to have fun and start a relationship then single women would be better. Is only if you are looking to do a certain thing with women and keep it short term, then married women are fine. Now this is similar to picking up hookers because there would be only one thing you would be interested in getting from them.

The only difference is that married women are cleaner, have a better quality of life and will make it easier to do that one thing you are looking for. Now it will be hard for you to find a married women to sleep around with. If you get lucky enough to find one that is interested in sex then do what you want to do. Although there are conditions with them as well. Now remember that once you start looking for married women, then your heading for trouble but if you come up with a clever plan to find a married women and get away with having sex then you have accomplished your goal. Even though the chances are slim that a married women would even consider doing something like this, it happens and it can work.